Posted by
gaga on Friday, 15 June 2012
From Romeo and Juliet, to Cleopatra and Mark Antony , Scarlett O'Hara and Rhett Butler in Gone With the Wind, to Sara and Abraham in the good book, love stories have reinforced our faith in love.
In a world where marriage is being arranged even by individuals themselves, there is a strong belief, by man and woman, that true love is still real and obtainable.
Being in touch with your spirit helps one to realize the need for the union between a man and a woman in order to fur fill one's' spiritual potential. (Those of us who aren't gay, cannot speak for the gay love, perhaps in time, we will understand more) .
Reading love stories helps us not only to keep the faith in love, but to remember the possibilities of love. Perhaps we could even go so far as to say that since the greatest love of all is the love we have for one 's self - the love story helps to nourish the love for self which automatically increases the love for another.
It is true, you can never love another more than you love yourself. Nourishment and inspection of your love for self will help us understand and grow our love for another
Many women report that they experience a warm and enriching feeling when they see or read a love story. The love story brings about certain feelings that we don't want to loose. It's like a natural high and of course we cry when things go badly .
The more conservative woman ask why would a person put themselves through such an emotional roller coaster when reading or viewing a love story? The answer is simple. The feelings make you know that you are alive.
The anticipation of finishing up a good love story has helped a many of women over the "Saturday night, without a date" issue. Being involved with another's life story thought written words, helps us to cope with our own lives and is known to reduce stress.
Posted by
gaga on Thursday, 14 June 2012
When you breakup, do you like to hear a sad love story? Does it console you to hear that other people have suffered, just like you? Why don't you watch a comedy to make you laugh instead? It is comforting to know that you are not alone in your grief? Going through a breakup can be very painful. We all cope in different ways. And some people cope by watching those sad love movies.
Why do you watch those depressing love movies when you are sad? What is it about sad love stories? If we all want that wonderful happily ever after love story, then why do we watch movies with depressing endings? Watching a heatbreaking love movie can release that pent up anger and it will help you have a good cry. It can be hard for some people to shed a tear, and a sappy movie may help the person balance out.
What is your favorite sad love story? I did not understand what people love about them, until I remember the Titanic movie. The Titanic was a great movie. The love between Jack and Rose was so strong. You wanted them to be together forever. However, their love ended in a tragic catastrophe. Yet, Rose moved on to live a wonderful life full of passion. And her sad love story on the Titanic turned into a happy story for her, because she found a new zest for life and a new person to fall in love with.
However, instead of watching a sad love story, wouldn't it be better to watch a comedy? Laughing seems like it would work far better than crying. Perhaps, the key is watching both a tear jerker and a hilarious comedy. Then you can laugh so hard, that you cry. That sounds like the way to get over a bad breakup. Laughing heals the body and the mind. The more you laugh the longer you can live. We should all try to look for things to laugh at in our everyday life. Try to laugh at yourself more and laugh at all those heartrending love stories, because one day you will have a happily ever after. Believe in your happy ending, because if you do not, then you are bound not to have one.
Relationships end all of the time. Do not let some bad breakups ruin your future. Watch those sappy love movies if you need to get over the pain. Laugh at life more. Go through the normal stages of breakup grief, but know that one day it will all be over. Keep looking for true love. Love with all of your heart. Change your sad love story of a love life into a hot romantic comedy.
Visit Sad love story breakups to find out about the stages of breakup grief. It is a normal process when you are going through such a loss. Knowing about the stages of grief can also help you to cope better. And know that you can find true love one day. Do not settle for anything less than you deserve. Just have faith and keep on searching for the one you cannot live without. Enjoy the journey and laugh more along the way. Don't give up. You deserve a happy love story, not a terrible sad love story.
Posted by
gaga on Wednesday, 13 June 2012
Many people have a sad love story in their past. Bad things happen in life. Your story may be sad now, but it will get better. You are not alone in your sadness. Try to stop thinking about what happened. Don't beat yourself up over it. Try to control your emotions and see the light at the end of the tunnel. And believe that one day you will have a happy story to share.
Focus on the good things that happen in life. Do not focus on that sad love story. Stop it from running over and over again in your mind. Don't wonder about all the "what if's." Forget about it. The sad love story is in the past. And the past is gone, the future is unknown, and the present is a gift. You can choose what to think about. Choose to think about good memories or good future memories that you will make in life. If you keep thinking about that one sad event, then you will get even more sad and perhaps depressed. Don't do that to yourself. Forgive yourself and others. Look for the good in life.
Everybody has bad things happen to them. Even those really happy people that look like they have the perfect life, they too have sad love stories. No one is perfect and no one has a perfect life. Bad things happen to good people and bad things happen to bad people. And vice-versa with good things. Again think about the good things. Know that you are not going through these sad emotions alone. And soon these sad emotions will pass.
Believe that true love really does exists. Yes, you might have just had your heart crushed into a million little pieces, but don't give up. You can find true love one day. Give yourself time to heal over your sad love story and then pick yourself up and move on. When you are ready to love again, don't be afraid to put yourself out there either. Love with your whole heart. Believe that one day you will have a happily ever after.
This heart aching pain will not last forever. Have hope for a wonderful future ahead. Keep on loving yourself and others more. Think good thoughts always. Remember, that you are not alone. Believe that true love is real. Stay encouraged and positive that your sad love story will turn into a happy one.
A sad love story happens to everyone at some time of another. When you are in love and someone breaks up with you, you think it is the end of the world. However, this one sad love story is only one of the many wonderful stories that will happen to you throughout your lifetime. There is someone out there waiting to meet you. Stay positive and hopeful that you will find them one day. Learn more about what to do when hear trenching breakups happen to you and how you can move on quickly at the Sad Love Story Blog.
Posted by
gaga on Tuesday, 12 June 2012
Just the other day, I was driving by a church billboard that reads, "Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom." Interestingly, this entire sentence could draw the public in, by changing the words just a little bit. "Love of God is the beginning of true wisdom," sounds much better, and is it not the truth?
Would you rather pay your respects to someone you love or someone you fear? Now, we realize that God is not just "someone," but this "fear of God" strategy works much more like a cattle prod than the good shepherd summoning his flock.
For Christians, it is also a misinterpretation of scripture because we must look at the word of Jesus to see the love of God. Let's take a close look at John 3:1.
3:1 "Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not."
For most people, doing God's work is a humble task with little fame, and God loves you for it. This is not a criticism of those who have gained fame through religion. There are many religious leaders who make good role models and a rare few who do not. Unfortunately, bad news is often "front page news."
The vast majority of people are good. Yet, their thoughts are barely heard, because "the noisy wheel gets the oil." Small groups have organized throughout history to undermine the good in life.
Unfortunately, it appears as if most of the world does not really know God, when organizations, who claim to care about your civil liberties take immoral actions, and people turn their backs on God.
